Me Or Your Friends

OK so why does it seem that no matter how long you have been with a man. No matter how old they get. You always seem second to their friends. They say no. But let's face the facts. They drop what they do when their friends call. They seem to not be able to do anything without them. Any free time they have. They make an excuse as to why they have to be with their friends. Do women not have friends? Do they not see that we need the same things as them. I don't see my friends all the time. I don't always get to do what I want! So why is it that men seem to think we are to work our full time jobs. Then come home and take care of house kids and them. Yes them. What would they do if we didn't feed them, cloth them and please them? They would be lost. Oh how about this one. Why is it men make plans to do something with their friends. Before they check with their wives? They do not make plans for someone to watch the children. Nor do they care if you had any plans. Now if the woman would want to go out. She has to check with his plans first. WHY!!!!. She would also be responsible for getting someone to watch the children. But guess what that means he can go out now too. But why cant he just stay home. I mean the children will be sleeping anyway. It is not like you have to do much. Men seem to think they have to prove they are still a real man. By making sure the boys come first. Well guess what I was a woman before I was your wife and a mom. I have the same needs as you.

So tell me. Do you have the battle of me or your friends in your home?

I'm Back

It has been a while since I have been on here. I kind of got lost in thinking there was no need for this blog, But after much thought and dealing with daily life I see clearly now. I see that there is a need for a place where we can vent. Where we can give and ask for advice. A place where we are not shamed to say "This is not what I signed up for". So please make sure to come back and visit and see all the topics we will be discussing.